Comments on: Be The Man You Want To Marry

By: Femme Lounge

Femme Lounge — Sat, 31 Oct 2009 09:43:27 +0000

yeah, its important for us to know that it takes two make or break a relationship. both parties must be ready to give their 100percent and stop the passing the blame!

By: Akua

Akua — Tue, 27 Oct 2009 16:30:11 +0000

Very insightful piece Miss B. You just inspired me to be a better woman! Loved it!

By: BrownAangel

BrownAangel — Tue, 27 Oct 2009 09:35:47 +0000

I’m not a regular reader of your blog.. but i just had to read this one. Good job B.

Its amusing that John Doe doesn’t realize how helpful you are to him. If his girl tells him to read a particular post that means she feels he doesn’t listen to her when she tries to tell him about the issue being discussed/ high lighted in the post.

Ehh.. Doe… when your girl says read a post. Read it then talk to her about it and try to find a solution. Don’t get passive or complacent and then when the girl leaves you you’ll be moping about how evil and unappreciative women are. You should be thanking Boakyewaa for helping your relationship “issues” come to the fore.

By: Boakyewaa

Boakyewaa — Tue, 27 Oct 2009 02:22:26 +0000

Ei Kwabena Frempong, you wish your ‘girlfriends’ would read this? Girlfriends? Hmmm.
Yeah Amina, I love AK’s song man, sounds a lot like ‘No One.’ Really good track.
Msod, I haven’t seen you here in a while. I hope you’re good. I know you’re a guy, so were you avoiding commenting cos you felt we were bashing guys? I hope not. Good to have you back though! I hope you encourage all your ‘girlfriends’ to read it too
Ohemaa, you’re right, we tend to take guys for granted. We expect a lot, but we dont dish as much as we receive. We think its our birth right as women to be doted on, but most of us don’t know how to give. Its a shame really.

By: OHEMAA

OHEMAA — Mon, 26 Oct 2009 15:50:42 +0000

Really enjoyed reading this.It is all about being reasonable;as much as u don’t want to be taken for granted, do not take him for granted.Focus on what is important to you and let the little things slide.

By: Kwabena Frempong

Kwabena Frempong — Mon, 26 Oct 2009 11:19:29 +0000

Hmm…
Wish ma girlfriends wud read this,very insightful.
Keep it up girl.
Kudos.

By: msod

msod — Mon, 26 Oct 2009 01:01:24 +0000

Thanks Boakyewaa for this blog. It’s refreshing. Really, it is!

By: Kaduna Girl (Amina)

Kaduna Girl (Amina) — Mon, 26 Oct 2009 00:56:00 +0000

Nice! I enjoyed reading. to add to that..

Listening happens to be a good tool. A lot of times we want to be heard, and forget to listen even when the person is talkin. we are constantly thnking of the next thing to say. so it is important to listen ladies! it is a tough exercise, but we sure can do it.
Oh and I love that Alicia keys song!